Best way to be happy with someone is to learn to be happy alone. That the way company will be matter of choice and not necessity.
- Anonymous
Tuesday, 1 December 2015
Stay Happy
Saturday, 14 November 2015
Today is something different
"Today is something different"
I woke up in morning at same routine time at 7:30am but I felt something different. I don't know what but there was something different.
No sunlight, breeze touching my hairs, felt a little more cool compared to other days, Questioning myself I looked towards AC but it was off. Question remained unanswered, but there was something different happening with me today.
Got ready for office and reached bus stop,looking around for bus, there was no crowd around me, where usually people use stand in queue for their turn, don't know why. feeling strange why am I feeling different I continued for my office.
I knew there would something different in office as well and there it is, I was amongst early coming employees for today from amongst late coming employees.
Continued my work, was going for lunch and one of my colleague with whom I had never gone for lunch before asked me for lunch today, I anyways go for lunch alone thought, it would be good having lunch with a company. Had lunch at different place.
Came back after lunch, continued with my work and don't know when time flew off and when I realised it was almost 7:30pm, being Friday almost all had vacated the office. I was thinking what the hell was going on, why am I feeling so different today.
Went back home, had dinner, took a walk around my condo, came back and went for sleep thinking why was this day different. Why some days are always like this.
Thinking and thinking I finally felt I have answer for this and a sound is helping me in the background. This answer was just behind that sound. Coming more closer. This sound was becoming louder and louder and had started irritating me. Irritation converting into frustration, And suddenly my eyes opened.
An alarm clock was just beeping beside my pillow. Yes it was a nightmare, took a deep breathe, was so curious to know the answer I tried sleeping again in the same position so that I can continue my dream but that answer was no where near me. Almost near to the answer but that question still remained unanswered "Why was today something different"
Sunday, 8 November 2015
River Walk
Walking by the road I reached " River walk" where people usually take a walk, where there is a river flowing beside and people enjoy nature. No noise, no pollution, only soothing sound of leaves, birds, and breeze kissing one's face. Enjoying nature I kept walking. Young couples jogging on the track, elder people having a quite walk, a blissful couple walking holding a baby, full family playing in the park with their children's, some taking a walk with their dogs, some with their children and some walking alone. Suddenly my phone made a beep sound.
I received an image of a beautiful baby from my friend, With whom we use to roam around crazily. Being a only girl in the group she was not treated as a girl. We use to play, we use to fight, we use to sing, dance, we use to go for trips, we use to pull each others legs and what not. It was full on " matargashti ".
A smile came on my face reviving those memories. She use to share each and every thing with us, about her family, friends, everyone . We were always at precedence for her, even if she had plan with her room mates, she use to cancel her plans for us. We use to eat and roam around late night and talk crazily on any shit. We use to work together in office, go for lunch together and play together. It was a world where we made our own world.
Suddenly we got a news that she is getting married. We were very happy but we're also in a state of ambivalence full of mixed emotions. We were not invited in the marriage being her male friends and her family being very conserved. There after we met twice or thrice after marriage. And now just received an image of her baby who was just born.
Tears rolling down my eyes, Realised almost 5 years passed out. Like a neck of woods, a smallest part of one of our friend was born, but we couldn't meet. We all had different priorities now. We all are so away from each other now.
Time change, Place change, People change, Priorities change but memories stay.
Wiping my tears, overcoming acute nostalgia for those days, I took a cab and reached home with all those memories revived. Living again with I, Me and Myself.
I received an image of a beautiful baby from my friend, With whom we use to roam around crazily. Being a only girl in the group she was not treated as a girl. We use to play, we use to fight, we use to sing, dance, we use to go for trips, we use to pull each others legs and what not. It was full on " matargashti ".
A smile came on my face reviving those memories. She use to share each and every thing with us, about her family, friends, everyone . We were always at precedence for her, even if she had plan with her room mates, she use to cancel her plans for us. We use to eat and roam around late night and talk crazily on any shit. We use to work together in office, go for lunch together and play together. It was a world where we made our own world.
Suddenly we got a news that she is getting married. We were very happy but we're also in a state of ambivalence full of mixed emotions. We were not invited in the marriage being her male friends and her family being very conserved. There after we met twice or thrice after marriage. And now just received an image of her baby who was just born.
Tears rolling down my eyes, Realised almost 5 years passed out. Like a neck of woods, a smallest part of one of our friend was born, but we couldn't meet. We all had different priorities now. We all are so away from each other now.
Time change, Place change, People change, Priorities change but memories stay.
Wiping my tears, overcoming acute nostalgia for those days, I took a cab and reached home with all those memories revived. Living again with I, Me and Myself.
Saturday, 31 January 2015
Journey
Life is like a Novel. Starts with a Preface i.e. parents and a journey where you are in the present but always curious about the future . You meet new characters who come and go .Some makes you laugh, Some makes you cry , Some make you happy and some sad , Some stay with you forever and some leave you.
But Always Remember
When people walk away from u.....let them go....!Your destiny has never tied you together. Anyone who leaves you....doesn't mean that they are bad. It means that their role in the story of your life is over...
2 Friends
One of my friend just set a status on whatsapp “When I say I wont tell anyone,it doesn’t include my best friend”.
And one more friend’s status “We all need someone to understand us”.
One of the most beautiful qualities of friendship is to understand and to be understood.
Initially you expect a lot and slowly you realize his/her characteristics and you yourself manage with him/her for who he/she is ……and that is friendship.
You don’t know when it starts and will ever end.
You can talk any crap about anything and about anyone.
You don’t get to know about the time when you are together.
You fight with them and in next second you don’t like someone else trying to become more close.
You don’t like when he/she gets hunted of politics which he/she cannot handle.
You can always talk about yourself whole time even though he/she is not interested and you have to suffer the same some other day.
You expect gift from them even after you have not given any.
You like when they can’t listen words against you.
You like when they appreciates you. You like when they applause for you.
You like when they encore for you.
In other words I can say “ A language of friendship is not words but meanings.”
Very Less Words But Still Felt Like Sharing
8th Jan 2015
And one more friend’s status “We all need someone to understand us”.
One of the most beautiful qualities of friendship is to understand and to be understood.
Initially you expect a lot and slowly you realize his/her characteristics and you yourself manage with him/her for who he/she is ……and that is friendship.
You don’t know when it starts and will ever end.
You can talk any crap about anything and about anyone.
You don’t get to know about the time when you are together.
You fight with them and in next second you don’t like someone else trying to become more close.
You don’t like when he/she gets hunted of politics which he/she cannot handle.
You can always talk about yourself whole time even though he/she is not interested and you have to suffer the same some other day.
You expect gift from them even after you have not given any.
You like when they can’t listen words against you.
You like when they appreciates you. You like when they applause for you.
You like when they encore for you.
In other words I can say “ A language of friendship is not words but meanings.”
Very Less Words But Still Felt Like Sharing
8th Jan 2015
The Feel
The Feel
The feel of going to your own city is something different.
The feel of going to city where you were born and brought up.
The feel of booking tickets for your hometown your city.
The feel of working in front of your computer and thinking about your leaving for your hometown.
The feel of thinking about meeting your friends after such a long time who will be waiting for you when you reach .
The feel of giving list of food items to your mom asking her to be prepared with these dishes.
The feel of your making list of some food joints to go where you use to hangout most of the time with your friends.
The feel of you talking in the language and tone in which your people of city speaks.
The feel of packing your bags for your journey to your city.
The feel of thinking about the places where you will roam around with your friends while you are traveling to your city.
The feel of waiting for your station when train is just two or three stations back.
The feel of entering your city with you waiting at the exit door and breeze touching your face.
The feel of the seeing the view and smell at the station which you have gone through a lot before.
The feel of siting in auto and talking with autowala about the city updates.
The feel of ringing bell of your door knowing your mom dad would be waiting inside.
The feel of seeing your mom dad’s wet eyes on seeing you after a such a long time.
The feel of a tight hug to your mom and dad after such a long time.
I don’t know but I am not able to describe these feelings. It just enriches me with happiness.It refreshes my mind. I feel Today I chose life.
“Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices - today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.”
–kevyn Aucoin
The feel of going to your own city is something different.
The feel of going to city where you were born and brought up.
The feel of booking tickets for your hometown your city.
The feel of working in front of your computer and thinking about your leaving for your hometown.
The feel of thinking about meeting your friends after such a long time who will be waiting for you when you reach .
The feel of giving list of food items to your mom asking her to be prepared with these dishes.
The feel of your making list of some food joints to go where you use to hangout most of the time with your friends.
The feel of you talking in the language and tone in which your people of city speaks.
The feel of packing your bags for your journey to your city.
The feel of thinking about the places where you will roam around with your friends while you are traveling to your city.
The feel of waiting for your station when train is just two or three stations back.
The feel of entering your city with you waiting at the exit door and breeze touching your face.
The feel of the seeing the view and smell at the station which you have gone through a lot before.
The feel of siting in auto and talking with autowala about the city updates.
The feel of ringing bell of your door knowing your mom dad would be waiting inside.
The feel of seeing your mom dad’s wet eyes on seeing you after a such a long time.
The feel of a tight hug to your mom and dad after such a long time.
I don’t know but I am not able to describe these feelings. It just enriches me with happiness.It refreshes my mind. I feel Today I chose life.
“Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices - today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity but embrace it.”
–kevyn Aucoin
Monday, 10 November 2014
FORLORN OLD AGE
What do you think what is this old aged lady below trying to think?
Does she need anything? Is she thinking if I was rich I wouldn’t be like this today? Or is she thinking if I was an actress? Who is she?Is she a mother of someone?Is she expecting something?...???
Our Mother and Father are our biggest assets. How much ever I write about them is less.But for me
Mothers are the strongest and the most wonderful women in the world. She is a nurse, care taker, housewife, business owner, mother, sister, daughter, and most important she is our BEST FRIEND.
She tries to protect you from every bad thing in the world. She feels the pain when you get hurt. Her stomach aches when you are hungry. She feels thirsty when you need water. Her one eye will be on us playing in park as she is scared of us getting hurt. She cooks the best food with all her love poured in it so that you become healthy. She feels satisfied when you eat food. She doesn’t sleep until she see you back home, even if she is lying on bed, her one part of the heart will be finding your presence, one ear will be expecting your footsteps at your home. She will be wide awake whole night when you are down with fever checking your temperature again and again. She is the person whose best wishes will be there for you forever.
Fathers are the person because of whom you are standing on your own legs. You are independent. Because of him you are self-esteemed, you are confident; you can talk to lot of people openly and confidently. He showed us the path and told how to travel, he didn’t travel with us but he made us travel and made us aware of the obstacles which he came across and we could come across in the path. He is the person who told us to be different from others. He taught us how to fight and protect yourself from any danger. He didn’t tell you no for anything even after he was not in the position to give you that thing, he somehow adjusted for you. He is the person who taught us to never crib about the past, just learn from it and move on. Always think about the next. He has always been your role model. His physical strength has always admired you. You always wanted to be like him.
Love your parents and Respect Old Age.
BECAUSE
You will be the one who will be sitting near the window thinking about your children and gazing stars whole night.
You will be the one who will cry reading some letter.
You will be the one who will see your own photos when you were young.
You will be the one waiting at the bottom of the hill thinking whether I can climb or not.
You will be the one who will be sitting at the balcony just watching the children playing your favourite game and you won’t be able to do anything other than just watch others and revive your memories of your best.
Love your parents. Appreciate your parents. Spend some quality time with them. If they are not here with you, at least call them and express your love for them. You tell your wife I Love you; you tell your boyfriend/ girlfriend I Love You. You even share your feelings with your normal friends saying Love You Yaar. Just tell them once…” I Love You Mom”, “I love You Dad”. That will make their day full of joy and satisfaction. They will feel good rather they will feel great. Their day will go with a beautiful smile on their face.
Remember guys, we are often so busy growing up but we are forgetting that they are growing old too. They were always with you in you every step of your life. Now it’s our time. This is the time they need us the most.
Will end with a line heard from one of my friend -
Respect the OLD, when you are YOUNG. Help the WEAK, when you are STRONG. Forgive the FAULT, when you are RIGHT. Because one day in life you'll be Old, Weak, & Wrong.
And friends, yes...she is expecting something...
And that is some Time of yours & Love
Does she need anything? Is she thinking if I was rich I wouldn’t be like this today? Or is she thinking if I was an actress? Who is she?Is she a mother of someone?Is she expecting something?...???
Our Mother and Father are our biggest assets. How much ever I write about them is less.But for me
Mothers are the strongest and the most wonderful women in the world. She is a nurse, care taker, housewife, business owner, mother, sister, daughter, and most important she is our BEST FRIEND.
She tries to protect you from every bad thing in the world. She feels the pain when you get hurt. Her stomach aches when you are hungry. She feels thirsty when you need water. Her one eye will be on us playing in park as she is scared of us getting hurt. She cooks the best food with all her love poured in it so that you become healthy. She feels satisfied when you eat food. She doesn’t sleep until she see you back home, even if she is lying on bed, her one part of the heart will be finding your presence, one ear will be expecting your footsteps at your home. She will be wide awake whole night when you are down with fever checking your temperature again and again. She is the person whose best wishes will be there for you forever.
Fathers are the person because of whom you are standing on your own legs. You are independent. Because of him you are self-esteemed, you are confident; you can talk to lot of people openly and confidently. He showed us the path and told how to travel, he didn’t travel with us but he made us travel and made us aware of the obstacles which he came across and we could come across in the path. He is the person who told us to be different from others. He taught us how to fight and protect yourself from any danger. He didn’t tell you no for anything even after he was not in the position to give you that thing, he somehow adjusted for you. He is the person who taught us to never crib about the past, just learn from it and move on. Always think about the next. He has always been your role model. His physical strength has always admired you. You always wanted to be like him.
Love your parents and Respect Old Age.
BECAUSE
You will be the one who will be sitting near the window thinking about your children and gazing stars whole night.
You will be the one who will cry reading some letter.
You will be the one who will see your own photos when you were young.
You will be the one waiting at the bottom of the hill thinking whether I can climb or not.
You will be the one who will be sitting at the balcony just watching the children playing your favourite game and you won’t be able to do anything other than just watch others and revive your memories of your best.
Love your parents. Appreciate your parents. Spend some quality time with them. If they are not here with you, at least call them and express your love for them. You tell your wife I Love you; you tell your boyfriend/ girlfriend I Love You. You even share your feelings with your normal friends saying Love You Yaar. Just tell them once…” I Love You Mom”, “I love You Dad”. That will make their day full of joy and satisfaction. They will feel good rather they will feel great. Their day will go with a beautiful smile on their face.
Remember guys, we are often so busy growing up but we are forgetting that they are growing old too. They were always with you in you every step of your life. Now it’s our time. This is the time they need us the most.
Will end with a line heard from one of my friend -
Respect the OLD, when you are YOUNG. Help the WEAK, when you are STRONG. Forgive the FAULT, when you are RIGHT. Because one day in life you'll be Old, Weak, & Wrong.
And friends, yes...she is expecting something...
And that is some Time of yours & Love
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